How to Announce a Child-Free Wedding: Elegant Wording Options

Communicating that your wedding will be child free can feel delicate — but with the right wording, it becomes simple, classy and completely drama-free.
For destination weddings, announcing it early is even more important so guests can plan travel, childcare and accommodation with ease.

Below are subtle, elegant and friendly wording options you can use on Save the Dates, invitations, wedding websites or RSVPs.

1. Very Subtle Wording (for minimal, clean invitations)

• “We kindly request an adults-only celebration.”
• “Our wedding day will be enjoyed in the company of adults only.”
• “A small note: this celebration has been designed for grown-ups.”

2. Elegant & Polite Wording

Perfect for classic or formal weddings.

• “Although we adore your little ones, our celebration will be an adults-only occasion.”
• “To maintain an intimate and relaxed atmosphere, we kindly request no children.”
• “We look forward to celebrating with you in a setting prepared especially for our adult guests.”

3. Destination-Wedding-Specific Wording

When travel and venue logistics play a role.

• “Due to travel and venue limitations, our wedding will be an adults-only event.”
• “As this is a destination celebration with limited capacity, we are only able to host adult guests.”
• “To ensure everyone can fully relax and enjoy the trip, our event will be child free.”

4. Warm & Considerate Wording

Ideal for couples who want to acknowledge the effort of travelling guests.

• “We truly hope you can join us. Our day will be shared among adults only.”
• “We appreciate your understanding as we celebrate this moment with our adult guests.”
• “We hope this advance notice helps you plan accordingly — our wedding will be child free.”

5. Light-Humour Options (always classy!)

• “A night of love, dancing… and no bedtime routines. Adults only.”
• “Come ready to relax — this one is for the grown-ups.”
• “Parents, enjoy a well-deserved kid-free getaway!”

6. Wording for RSVPs or Wedding Websites

• “Please note: we are unable to accommodate children at the wedding.”
• “Our guest list is reserved for adults only — thank you for understanding.”
• “For parents travelling with little ones, babysitting services can be arranged upon request.” (optional, if offered)

When Should You Announce the Child-Free Policy?

To avoid confusion, repeat the message gently in multiple places:

1. Save the Date
2. Formal invitation
3. Wedding website (FAQ section)
4. RSVP card or digital form

Clear communication keeps everyone happy — especially when flights and travel plans are involved.

✨ Planner’s Tip

The earlier you announce a child-free celebration, the easier it becomes for your guests. Good communication = smoother travel, fewer surprises, and a much more relaxed wedding.